The author of Hebrews makes it clear that the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus changed everything. Sacrifices and blood are no longer required or even desired. Violence is out, especially if it is in any way connected with our understanding of God. The death of Jesus was the final sacrifice that put an end to all sacrifice. We need to hear this - too often people imagine that God is pleased with suffering or violence, especially if it is done in His name. But we now live by grace and compassion, and that is how we must govern our lives.

The words of Jesus seem harsh at first - it sounds as if he is being disrespectful to his family. Quite the contrary - he is adding to his (and our) family! Rather than being defined only by blood relation the Christian family is one of the heart. Anyone who does the will of God is now our brother or sister, father, or mother, regardless of what label or name they might bear. We can find family among fellow believers and even in other traditions. People who truly do the will of God recognize one another and speak to each other from the depths of the heart. When we put on the mind and heart of Jesus we gain the whole world and potential connection with all of humanity. As the compassionate and perfect high priest Jesus extends his compassion and mercy to all without distinctions or conditions. As his servants and disciples, we are called to do likewise. Let us begin building relationships with our new family.