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3rd Week of Lent
Ho 5:15 - 6:6
Ps 50 (51):3-4, 18-21
Lk 18:9-14
(Ps Wk III)
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In this parable, Jesus exposes a subtle yet dangerous form of pride: "spiritual bragging." The Pharisee's fault is not loud self- promotion before others, but a silent self-exaltation before God. His prayer never turns toward God's mercy; instead, it focuses on his own self-righteousness. In his heart, he condemns the tax collector, measuring his holiness through uncharitable comparison rather than through genuine concern for the well-being of others.

Psychology helps us name this interior blindness. Bragging, whether spoken or unspoken, flows from excessive self-focus. Studies on self-perception show that people often overestimate their own virtue while failing to grasp how others see them. This "empathy gap" reveals how easily one becomes trapped in self-reference, unable to step outside one's own perspective. Spiritually, such a gap becomes a real obstacle to grace.

Therefore, it is no surprise that Jesus says the Pharisee has already received his reward — the satisfaction of feeling righteous. On the other hand, the tax collector, aware of his limitations, goes home justified. God does not seek flawless résumés of virtue, but hearts emptied of self-reliance. Spiritual greatness is never self-generated. As many spiritual writers remind us, "nothing truly good is achieved without the help of God." Therefore, let us boast no more, but remain humble before Him. For humility is not thinking less of ourselves, but placing ourselves truthfully before God as we really are.



Lord, help me to be more humble.



DAILY OFFERING
Eternal Father, I offer You everything I do this day; my thoughts, words, joys and sufferings. Grant that, vivified by the Holy Spirit and united to the Sacred Heart of Jesus and the Immaculate Heart of Mary, my life this day jul be of service to You and to others. I also pray that all those preparing for marriage discover in Sacrament the source of Christ's grace for living a fithful and fruitful love. Amen.

PRAYING WITH THE CHURCH
INTENTION
For disarmament and peace.
Let us pray that nations move towards effective disarmament, particularly nuclear disarmament, and that world leaders choose the path of dialogue and diplomacy instead of violence.
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